the strong word.. hate.
have you ever hated anybody?
i don’t think i could seriously ever ‘hate’ somebody. hate is way too strong of a word to me. hate to me.. is like wishing death upon somebody. idk why i think that way, i just always have.. for as long as i can remember.
instead of the word “hate” i just say things like.. ’strongly dislike’ because i can’t bring myself to say hate unless its talking about the weather or something. but never, ever could i ever say it towards a person..
but there are 2 people i sometimes wish i could say i hated. but i can’t.. & i never will hate them. but liars & cheaters are at the top of my book for ‘most disliked people’. ughh.
i dont understand why people lie OR cheat. it just boggles my mind.. seriously. i dont get it.
Marge replied:
you got that from your father.
You dad thinks if you say you hate someone you wish them dead.
But of course that isn’t true, it is just something you got from your father.
As for why people lie and cheat……lying is a way of getting out of things.
lying is a way of thinking, what a person doesn’t know doesn’t hurt them.
Lying is a way of sparing someone any pain.
I know you don’t understand it because you are the one who has been lied to and cheated on.
So…that is why people lie.
Cheating is done for various reasons.
Could be going back to the what they don’t know won’t hurt them thing.
Or it could just be because they don’t have a conscience.
It could be because they just don’t care enough to be faithful.
?????
You can’t understand it because you aren’t made that way.
But weather you dislike them or hate them……as long as you don’t have to deal with them anymore….you need to let it go.
Love you!!
February 28, 2008 at 10:41 pm. Permalink.