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		<title>By: Womanofroyce</title>
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		<description>as much as you loved Bryan and he was your first love, it would be great if you could have some kind of friendship with him.
Maybe it isn&#039;t possible because you may think, he is happy, why couldn&#039;t he be happy with me? kind of thing.
But being friends is good.
EVEN if it is only the kind of friend that you say hi to when you see them
As for Adam, I think you need to tell him you love him and I think he needs to hear you say it.
If he stares at you and asks for you to come over just to sleep next to him obviously he cares for you.
He may not say I love you first because of Heidi breaking up with him and he doesn&#039;t want to put him self out there to get hurt again.
BUT I think he needs to know that you love him.
And don&#039;t tell him after or during sex, tell him some other time.
Like when you kiss him goodbye Thursday morning.
Or as you are laying next to him watching a movie tomorrow night.
IF he doesn&#039;t say it back to you then say something like &quot;It&#039;s okay if you aren&#039;t ready to say it back. I can wait until you are ready&quot; or something like that.
Don&#039;t get your feelings hurt.
Remember he has been hurt with a broken heart more recently then you have.
:)
Love you Honey
Love Mom</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>as much as you loved Bryan and he was your first love, it would be great if you could have some kind of friendship with him.<br />
Maybe it isn&#8217;t possible because you may think, he is happy, why couldn&#8217;t he be happy with me? kind of thing.<br />
But being friends is good.<br />
EVEN if it is only the kind of friend that you say hi to when you see them<br />
As for Adam, I think you need to tell him you love him and I think he needs to hear you say it.<br />
If he stares at you and asks for you to come over just to sleep next to him obviously he cares for you.<br />
He may not say I love you first because of Heidi breaking up with him and he doesn&#8217;t want to put him self out there to get hurt again.<br />
BUT I think he needs to know that you love him.<br />
And don&#8217;t tell him after or during sex, tell him some other time.<br />
Like when you kiss him goodbye Thursday morning.<br />
Or as you are laying next to him watching a movie tomorrow night.<br />
IF he doesn&#8217;t say it back to you then say something like &#8220;It&#8217;s okay if you aren&#8217;t ready to say it back. I can wait until you are ready&#8221; or something like that.<br />
Don&#8217;t get your feelings hurt.<br />
Remember he has been hurt with a broken heart more recently then you have.<br />
 <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
Love you Honey<br />
Love Mom</p>
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